don't understand men..

MAN 1

well, man 1 is technically my bestfriend's boyfriend.. err ex-boyfriend..

they had just broke up few days ago..

hrmm.. dont know what to say. actually i just dont get it.

before this, their relationship was going well.. well, of coz there were conflicts.. but enough to show that the man loves my bestie so much.. maybe..

well, maybe a long distance relationship is hard.

but the question is why making it harder than it already is?

he said he loves her. so why on earth did he seem to be not interested?

DONT JUST SAY 'I LOVE U', PROVE IT!

dont understand 1

i wonder.. when i texted him (well actually on behalf of my bestie),

ME: ko p manukan ka?

HIM: tidak..

ME: cuti ni ko teda mo p jalan jalan dengan *******?
HIM: tengok la.. lagipun kawan kawan saya ada banyak plan..
ME: reading the message out loud to my other 2 besties..
ME & my 2 other besties: tediam.

what is that?

well, the fact that maybe he wanted to spend his time with his bestfriends- that is totally fine.

but the fact that he seemed to be having zero plan of spending some time with my bestfriend, which is his girlfriend- that's quite unacceptable.

sudah la tu lelaki mungkin pegi semenanjung untuk further dia punya study bulan january ni.. that's not just miles away, that's MERENTAS LAUT CHINA SELATAN. and it's JANUARY. ta kan dia tamau jumpa langsung his beloved girlfriend sebelum dia jalan kan.. januari tu bukannya lama lagi. ta smpi satu bulan pun..

the result: sampai dorang break, tu lelaki teda perancangan mau jumpa pn.. i feel like laughing. but i am more puzzled + confused + shock + a lil bit pissed off.. huh.

dont understand 2

when my bff texted him, he seldomly replied.. sometimes he did, sometimes he didn't.

alasan: sibuk, dia keja jadi penat.. sometimes, teda alasan pun..

if it's true he's busy, then it's ok. never mind. so my bff waited until Christmas. if he still didnt text her, that's for sure going to blow her off. and... he didnt. so my bff texted him with her cousin's phone (without telling her name). guess what? he replied.. what is that? then, the cuzzie told him it's actually my bff who texted him. then, no answer. he didnt even texted my bff afterwards..

my bff texted him again the next day. again, no replied.. then, my bff called him, he answered. he was actually hanging out with his best friends.. well, was that what he defined as busy? i bet both of them were using 2 different types of dictionary coz the next thing i knew, they broke up.

dont understand 3

well, yea my bff was the one who asked for a break up. but do you know what his reponse was? ok.. O.K.? that's it? ok?? man, i'm speechless.. dia sayang ka nda bff aku tu? astaghfirullah.. sabar ja la..

heran ni.. dulu cam betul betul suka.. dulu bukan main lagi cakap itu cakap ini, buat itu buat ini.. buat pa la tu semua kalau last last jadi begini? cam pointless ni. another point for me to stay single. haha XD

but that's okay. tu lelaki yang rugi. sudah la bff aku tu cute (really2 cute. i'm serious..), baik, caring.. pa lagi dia mau?

KADANG KADANG KITA TA NAMPAK APA YANG TEBAIK UNTUK

KITA WAKTU BENDA TU DEPAN MATA KITA...

KITA AKAN SEDAR BILA BENDA TU SUDAH TIADA DENGAN KITA..

MASA TU, BARULA MULA TIMBUL RASA MENYESAL..

BUT THEN, REGRETTING AT THAT TIME IS USELESS MAN.. 

BESTIE, STAY STRONG!!