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a note of love to all my single girlfriends

Assalamualaikum.. i found this on fb. Just wanna share it to all of you. Hope you'll like it just like i do.

Last night my husband & I went for grocery shopping and we bought not-so-glamorous stuffs for the house like floor cleaner, cooking oil & rice; and then it struck me that we’re so married! Hehe... Alhamdulillah… It got me thinking of the things that I would do instead last night if I was still single; and it reminds me of my single friends who (I assume) like me once – waiting, hoping & looking for Mr. Right. Yes, I was all that, waiting, hoping & looking, and now when Allah sends my husband to me, for me, it happened so quickly, so fast, we were married within two-and-a-half months after the first day we laid eyes on each other! How did it happen? It’s Allah’s decree, no doubt. Alhamdulillah..

Before I deep-dive further into my marriage, I feel that I need to do my part to share with you bits and pieces of advice on the journey of finding ‘the one’. Please take this from my own experience and observation and it is not anyway to be treated like 'the checklist', but I think it will help insyaAllah.

#1 – Be Fair

A friend of mine told me that ‘we’ll get who we deserve’, and many years later I realized and come to my wisdom that it’s true; and to me, it’s even written in the Quran that: “…women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity is for women of purity” – Qur’an 24:26. So ladies, before we list down our criteria in a man that we’re looking for, like “Dia mestilah seorang yang bertanggung jawab, beriman & menghormati orang tua etc., do reflect again are we all that in the first place? Are we responsible? Are we pious? Are we respectful to the elders?

#2 – Hook Up with Allah & Allah will Hook You Up

We are Muslims. And we know that Allah is the Creator and He holds our future, our life. And only from Him we could be guided to find the one, the right one, the good one. So do check out this great article on the explanation of Hook Up with Allah & Allah will Hook you Up. I hold this concept true to my heart during my single days and hopefully you'll find it beneficial too insyaAllah.

http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/hook-up-with-allah-allah-will-hook-you-up/

#3 – Be Proactive

When a few other friends and I were single, we are inspired by the story of our Mother of the Believers, Khadijah Binti Khuwailid r.a. There is an article on it, which is “Just Because Khadijah Ask” and one of the excerpts in the article says:

“Khadijah asked. Khadijah, may Allah’s Mercy be upon her, asked about Prophet Muhammad for marriage. She initiated the communication. She sent someone on her behalf to find out if he was available for marriage. And it was because she asked, that she got that blessed answer. And with that answer, was the beginning of the greatest stories of love for all times, and also one of the greatest examples of a true muhsina and mumina. A woman older than him, previously married with children, was inquiring about a younger bachelor, from one of the best tribes in town.  The honor of his acceptance wasn’t just hers alone. It was his too. He was going to marry one of the most beautiful hearts in all of Mecca. A woman who’s heart would sacrifice everything she had to support him, and Islam. Khadijah asked.”

Check out this website for the article:

http://muslimmatters.org/2010/08/02/because-khadijah-asked-an-alternative-path-to-meeting-mr-right/

I’m not saying just get out there and ask any male passers-by if they’re single and looking; but be truthful to begin with. The next time your aunts asking you when you’re getting married?; instead of replying “I just want to focus on my career for now”, please remove your ego and say “I have not found one, why not you introduce me to someone Aunty? I am ready to settle down.” They will usually quickly think of someone for you, or the at least they will think of you when the next time any of her friends start asking for any single girls to marry their bachelor sons, and if that doesn't happen too, the very least they will stop asking you when and that will lift unnecessary pressure.

Besides that, be active in community service, environmental projects, language classes, or any halal activities of your interest. You’d tend to meet more people outside your regular circle of friends, and raise the possibilities of meeting the one; and best of all he will share the same interest as you. Sharing the same interest is always a good thing to begin with.

#4 – He will be the Father of Your Children

I went for a talk by Yunus Kathrada, he told us a story of a man who went to see a Syeikh to seek advice on his newborn child. Which is good to always seek advice, but the Syeikh responded to the man “It’s too late”. Why? The Syeikh said that the process of raising an excellent child begins even before we get married - by selecting a good spouse to begin with. I have heard stories about girl meets boy at Hard Rock Café, at Zouk nightclub and what else have we. I cannot say that couples met at all these places would be heading to a crappy marriage, but think about it. Don’t we all want a good beginning for our union that would bear us pious and righteous kids in the future?

For a very good lecture on this, it brought tears to my eyes. Allahuakbar. Please YouTube search this: "Mufti Menk parent~child relationship"

Maybe what I'm trying to say also is, all human are born with a fitrah, an innate feeling of returning to the Almighty Allah. No matter how naughty we are at a point of our lives, at the back of our heads I'm sure we'll be thinking "I will repent and return to Allah one day". But, if girl meets boy at nightclub, and then they get married, years later the girl feels like she wants to get closer to Allah while the boy still would like to party; then we'll see a problem when the girl starts going to religious classes and want to go for Umrah, while her husband refuse to even pray his solat. Which of the parents will the children look up to and follow? Let's think far, and choose wisely.

Besides that, observe his temperament & his reaction towards children – the last thing you would want when you’re married with 3 kids crying in your arms, you ask for his help with the kids and he says.. “You know right honey, me and kids just don’t gel”…

#5 – Eliminate, Banish Your Baggage

I believe there is wisdom for free-mixing and dating is haraam in Islam. We all know that GF-BF concept is superficial; we will never get to know the true color of someone until we live with them – day in, day out. If you are still not convinced that dating is haram, the are a lot of hadiths to prove it, but I will share one here that I feel so strong about:

It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yassaar said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” 

-Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 486. Shaykh al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045, that this hadeeth is saheeh.

Don't tell me people who "couple" and "date" don't even touch each other. Dating/couple/in a relationship is haram my dears. Fear Allah and seek for his help to give you strength to do the right thing.

And to me, the other ugly side of this “dating” relationship is, it does not always have the happy ending. I have heard stories of a bride crying on her wedding day when her ex-boyfriend called her up for a last good bye, some still can’t get over their exes even after having children; some still secretly get in touch with their exes just to ask “How have you been”?” subhanAllah… May Allah protect us from this.

If you still have issues or still cannot get over an ex, deal with it now. It will fog-up your path to find the one, and you will always have the shadow of your ex over your decision on moving on with another man. You would only want to have a vision of you and your husband and your kids in the future, and not the thought of “How would it be if I marry him instead?” Wise up, girls!

#6 – Be Selective, Not Picky

I believe there is a fine line between being selective and picky. To me, if you decline a proposal from a guy that is pleasing to the eyes, well mannered and has a stable income; but he smokes & you realized that he seldom attends Friday prayers, then yes you're being selective. But if you decline a proposal from a guy that is pleasing to the eyes, well mannered, has stable income, doesn't smoke, and is Allah-fearing, but he is a mommy's boy (or he's balding, or he has an interesting hobby of collecting dried leaves) then you're being picky.

Key thing to remember here “Deal Breaker”. If he has or lacks of certain pivotal quality/characteristic that you cannot live with/without then it is big reason not to marry him. For example, if you know you're a career driven person and have major career ambitions but your potential husband wants you to eventually quit your job to look after the kids then that's the “Deal Breaker”. But please do not confuse deal breaker with differences. For example, if you like to eat Japanese and hates Italian food but he cannot bear the thought of eating raw fish but loves pasta, this is not deal breaker. Both of your can still work around differences and it is silly to have a big fight over which restaurant to go have dinner. But “Deal Breakers” are something that could most likely put a strain in a marriage in which failing to manage could lead to divorce. See the significance?

However, please try not to overanalyze and being hypercritical. Another key thing to remember is: Nobody Is Perfect, and no sayang, not even you.

#7 – Be Ready to Give (Up)

Marriage is not all about sex. It's not all about him showering you with endless love and affection. It's not all about cuddling & curling up together in the bed every night. Yes, it is all that, but it is not all and everything about that. It's not all about you! Marriage needs sustenance, and it does not come for free, you need to work for it. You need to give. Just like how we expect our men to know manly stuffs like how to change the car tyre when it punctures or know to repair a leaking pipe or how to assemble a DIY baby cot; I'm sure men would also expect the wives to know womanly stuffs like how to cook, how to do laundry properly and perhaps iron man's work clothes.

Of course most of us could say that it's the modern world now, women don't need to know how to cook and clean and that we can get a maid to do all that. But would you really want to get a maid to cook your husband's meals & iron your husband's work shirts? I know it's easier said than done, but who say that to maintain a happy marriage is effortless & easy?

Ready to give, includes being ready to give up. Do you have male friends who you often hang with, or who to you “we're just friends?” or “we've been friends for so long he's like a brother to me”? Guess what? After you're married, I would need to advice you to give them up like a bad habit. I know along the years we have made so many friends including guy friends, but once we're married we CANNOT hang out with them anymore. I am not saying we cannot be friends anymore, but it is with loads of limitation. I trust that you would use your wisdom on how to draw the line. Even though you future husband is the “coolest” guy on earth (and Allah forbids) he allows you hang out with any of your guys friends, once you're being seen by other people hanging out with another guy other than your husband, you've lit a spark for fitnah and speculation which will spread like wildfire. Imagine a neighbour saw you walking with your male friend at a mall, and she tells your mother in-law. High voltage drama huh?

Trust. Could take years to build, but only a minute to destroy.

#8 - It's Him Not His Money

So, he drives a BMW and earns RM20k a month? OR So, he drives his father's first car and don't really have a proper job? BUT I say So what?

Often times girls will look for a man that is wealthy and rich - that's completely common. Its a biological and psychological thing. We need look for men that can "hunt & gather" to provide security, shelter and food to take care of us and our young. It's a survival thing.

However, either he is rich or broke; he is actually rich or broke NOW. Who are we to say that their wealth will be there forever, or that they will earn very little money for lifetime? The key point to stress, is his deen (iman) & character. Does he have the right knowledge and iman to guide you and your young. Does he have maturity and good character to endure the challenges of the world and maried life? They say money is the #1 cause of divorce nowadays. But do you think it's the money or how the married couple deal and manage when they're stuck in a situation that involves money?

I am not saying, go into marriage blindly but please use your wisdom and not your desire. He may not have much today, but if you see that he has the willpower to work hard to earn a better living and you believe with all your heart that Allah is All Provider, insyaAllah you'll be fine.

For me, during the ta'aruff (introduction meeting) with my then-not-yet-husband, I asked him about his education. To me and maybe to a lot of parents education is key. Personally, I don't mind if he is a burger flipper at Ramly Burger (he's not by the way), but if he has a qualification, or a degree or something, insyaAllah he has something to fall back on. I didn't ask him about how much he's earning or anything like that, because it's not important to me. Have faith in Allah that He is The All Provider.

From Umar ibn Al-Khattab from the Prophet (sas) who said:

"If only you relied on Allah a true reliance, He would provide sustenance for you just as He does the birds: They fly out in the morning empty and return in the afternoon with full stomachs."

Ahmad, An-Nasaa’I, Ibn Majah, Al-Hakim and At-Tirmidhi who said: "Hassan sahih"

#9 – Know the Rights of Husband & Obligations of Wife, Vice Versa.

A lot of us dreams of getting married one day to wear nice dress on the wedding day. But after the wedding day is over a whole new world of responsibilities await you and him. Both husband and wife has a list of responsibilities within the Islamic guidelines. Read them up, study them. By abiding to this guidelines, almost certainly we can maintain a happy marriage by the will of Allah.

But often, during tense and trying times the husband and wife would usually accuse each other of not full filling his/her rights. For example the husband would say “You should beautify yourself for me and not look like a mess at home!”; and the wife would say something like “You're supposed to provide a home for us, but we been living with your housemate for months now!”

A key guideline to this is to prioritize your obligations as a wife and to respect the rights of the husband. And vice versa of course. Know your obligations, what you should do, your responsibilities BEFORE thinking about your rights, his obligations, what he should do and his responsibilities.

So now.. can you manage to fulfill all your obligations? Are you such a strong-headed person that would be able to listen to your husbands advice? Do you have the right attitude to be kind to your husband? Do you still think that after you're married you can do whatever you want and allow anybody into your house without your husband's permission? What would you do if you have a long tiring day at work but you need to fulfill your husband's physical desire? Do you have the right motivation to beautify yourself (at home) to be pleasing to his eyes with your appearance? Basically, do we have the right mindset to strive to be a good wife? Or do we still think it's all about me, me, me?

Please ponder on this hadith:

Qays ibn Sa'd Narrated: I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap (governor of a province in ancient Persia) of theirs, so I said: The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Apostle of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me , if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah. [Hadith: Sunan Abu Dawud, 11:2135]

Heavy. I know... :(

But marriage is such a pure & beautiful thing that if we fulfill every obligations for the sake of Allah, we shall be rewarded for every effort insyaAllah.

Ibn Hibban narrated that the Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “If a woman prayed five prayers, fasted in Ramadan, protected her honor and obeyed her husband; then she will be told (on the Day of Judgment): enter Paradise from any of its(eight) doors.”

insyaAllah...Yeay!! :D

#10 – It is the Marriage, Not the Wedding

I think we heard countless times that engaged couples are putting off marriage because they do not have enough money to hold the wedding. If you're imagining a wedding with rotating wedding cake, nasi minyak lobster menu, tents decorated with thousands of tulips from Amsterdam, haute couture Vera Wang wedding dress and French Riviera honeymoon (ok, I'm exaggerating here but you get the picture) - then no wonder why you need to put off your wedding.

But my dears, it's really not all about the wedding. Some of my friends asked me whether it was the happiest day of my life; I had a little trouble answering that because leading after the wedding is what matters more to me. The whole lifetime with this person that you should treat him as part of you; and build a family with children whom are the coolness of our eyes. InsyaAllah.. and that thought itself could make one very happy.

It's not about the wedding stuffs. I remember people who attended my wedding and the precious moments. How I was overwhelmed with emotions when my dad hugged me tightly before the akad nikah & my mom whispered "you'll always be my baby" during the akad nikah ceremony. And the happiest thing I could remember on my wedding day was holding his hand for the very first time. That was surreal, I loved it so much. See? I don't remember much about the wedding stuffs; although they're really nice - the dress, the pelamin, the bunga telur, Alhamdulillah, but I don't remember that time and again.  I always have this theory, the longer it takes to prepare a wedding the harder it gets to let the wedding itself go... After 1 year (or even more) of preparing, it will all be over in 2 days, and you'd go.. "That's it? That's The wedding?" So please, once you have met the right person to marry, go ahead with it – quickly.

Some really good books on preparing yourselves for marriage, I would recommend:

1. The Muslim Family Series by Muhammad Mustafa al-Jibaly

2. The Ideal Muslimah by Dr. Muhammad Ali Al Hashimi

Can get them from Dakwah Corner Bookstore -  http://www.dakwahbookstore.com.my

Some really good speakers I love listening to (YouTube them):

1. Mufti Menk

2. Nouman Ali Khan

3. Mussab Wadji Akkari

So there you go. A little note of love from the quite newly married me to all my single sisters. I always make du'a for Allah to hasten the jodoh for all my single sisters with a pious and great men who will be the coolness of their eyes. Please make loads of du'a for yourselves too. Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah.  “Hook up with Allah and Allah will hook you up”, remember? :)

A wife is like a gift to a man. And there is a hadith that goes like this:

"This world is just temporary conveniences, and the best comfort in this world is righteous women.” - Sahih Muslim 10/56.

So prepare yourself to be a gift (and not a test) to your future husband, so that one day he will hold you and look lovingly in your eyes and say “Alhamdulillah”.

~END~

Do share if you feel this would benefit others, insyaAllah.

Please make doa for Allah to shower me & my family with His mercy and keep us steadfast on the right path. Ameen..

newly weds

assalamualaikum wbt..
post yang short ni untuk cousin seha yang kahwin 29 jun lepas. agak sedih sedikit sebab tak dapat balik untuk tengok cousin yang rapat kahwin, tengah berperang dengan kertas final sekarang.. tapi takpa, seha kirim doa dari jauh. semoga bahagia hingga ke syurga.. aminn.. :)

 Ahmad Fathi + Syarifah Aminah

congrate mina.. happy for you <3 :)

tahniah juga untuk irine nadia dan irma hasmie.. kahwin tarikh sama dengan cousin seha, 29 jun. :)

she's stunning! so beautiful.. :)

Redza + Irma Hasmie

Amirul + Irine Nadia

Lazimnya perempuan-perempuan yang jahat adalah untuk lelaki-lelaki yang jahat, dan lelaki-lelaki yang jahat untuk perempuan-perempuan yang jahat dan sebaliknya perempuan-perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki-lelaki yang baik, dan lelaki-lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan- perempuan yang baik. Mereka (yang baik) itu adalah bersih dari tuduhan buruk yang dikatakan oleh orang- orang yang jahat, mereka (yang baik) itu akan beroleh pengampunan (dari Allah) dan pengurniaan yang mulia.

[An-Nur:26]

p/s; subhanAllah.. bila lihat gambar-gambar kahwin ni, benarlah janji Allah dalam kitabNya al-Quran. perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki yang baik, dan lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yang baik. so, kita kena usaha berubah ke arah kebaikan dan jadi solehah untuk dapat pasangan yang soleh dan baik juga, insyaAllah.  okay, now back to my exam mood! heee.. may Allah bless! :) 

my lovely section mates

Section 2, 3rd year 2011/2012

Faculty of Medicine, Alexandria University, Egypt.

p/s; ni gambar section guna DSLR mun. thanks mun! :) tema section kami, girls ungu dan pink.. boys biru cerah. ni last picture for this year, final year of pre-clinical year. insyaAllah moga sama-sama masuk clinical year tahun depan.. aminn. may Allah bless! :)

when i feel sad..

when i feel sad, besides praying to Allah, i'll listen to this song. it's a beautiful song indeed. SubhanAllah! :')

i don't know why lately i've been crying too much.. crying alone. after prayed, during my du'a, before sleep and sometimes when i do my revision. maybe it's because what i'd planned before is not going smoothly. i know i'd make others disappointed with me. i'm so sorry.. but i promise you all that i will try my best, do my best this time. it's been a very hard journey for me. deep inside my heart, i really hope that all the wishes will come true. aminn ya Allah.. yet, i believe everything happen for a reason. i keep reminding myself that Allah is The Best Planner and His plans are always the best, because it is what i need eventhough it is not exactly like what i want.. :)

i wanna tell you something.. everytime i feel sad, i will try to find His words in His love letter to calm my heart. and in that everytime, i will find one. i only opened the Quran randomly. SubhanAllah.. He really knows how to cure my heart. like i said before, i felt a little bit down.. then i opened my Quran, and i found this sweet words;

 

O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient. [al-Baqarah verse 153]

alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillah.. it's enough for only one verse to make me calm. SubhanAllah.. i know i need to be patient if i want Him to be with me along my way. like others said, a man without Allah is nothing. and i don't wanna be nothing, but i want to be someone, who i (myself) can be proud of. who when one day i turned around and look back at myself, i can proudly say; "that's me. i wouldn't want to be anybody else. i just want to be her." so, no matter which road i'm taking, i'm going to give my very best! dear Allah, please be with me.. :')

p/s; for those who feel hard because of His trials, just have faith in Him. put some effort. keep on praying, praying and praying. if Allah wills it, it will happen. insyaAllah.. may Allah bless! :)

on forgiveness and fairytale

"Learn to forgive. Forgive everything from the past and forgive anyone from your past. Because on this world, nobody is perfect."

We all make mistakes. And it is always good and noble to forgive someone in your life. In love, teach to forgive the one you love. It doesn't matter how bad or how much it hurt before, learn to forgive them. Even if they are not sorry. The best thing of forgiving someone is you are pleasing Allah Taala. InsyaAllah, only He can cure our hearts. And I also hope anyone that I've hurt will forgive me too. :)

"When you stop searching for a prince and make Allah the King of your heart, He will help you to complete your fairytale. InsyaAllah."

Remember, Allah always has a better plan for each and one of us. Alhamdulillah, I can't tell you how thankful I am to Allah that because of Him, I've learn to improve and see my mistakes in the past.  I've done so many mistakes. Now, all I want to do is to change myself to become a better person. InsyaAllah. I believe in Allah. I believe that He has written something special for me. Special that it takes a lot of patience and prayer. And all I want to do now is to prepare myself for that special person. A special person whom I'll be spending the rest of my life with, through thick and thin, and the most important things - the one who will lead me towards Allah, who will become the Imam for my prayers, the father of my children, the one who will always hold my hands and together helping each other to attain Jannah. InsyaAllah. To me, it's not just about love. It's more than that. It's about responsibility and commitment. It's about the beginning of the journey towards forever in Jannah. And most of all, I want it to be special, to experience it according to what Allah has already planned for me.

InsyaAllah.

I will always be waiting for that day to come.

Dear heart, have faith in Allah.

Love,

jangan menunggu!

 1. Jangan menunggu bahagia baru tersenyum, tapi tersenyumlah, maka kamu akan bahagia.

 2. Jangan menunggu kaya baru bersedekah, tapi bersedekahlah, maka kamu semakin kaya. 

3. Jangan menunggu termotivasi baru bergerak, tapi bergeraklah, maka kamu akan termotivasi.

 4. Jangan menunggu dipedulikan orang baru kamu peduli, tapi pedulilah tentang orang lain. maka kamu akan dipedulikan... 

5. Jangan menunggu orang memahami kamu baru kamu memahami mereka, tapi fahamilah orang itu, maka orang itu akan fahami kamu.

 6. Jangan menunggu terinspirasi baru menulis,tapi menulislah, maka inspirasi akan hadir dalam tulisanmu. 

7. Jangan menunggu homework, baru bekerja, tapi bekerjalah, maka homework kamu akan menunggumu.

 8. Jangan menunggu dicintai baru mencintai, tapi belajarlah mencintai,maka kamu akan dicintai.

 9. Jangan menunggu banyak ruang, baru hidup tenang, tapi hiduplah dengan tenang. percayalah...bukan sekadar ruang yang datang tapi juga rezeki yang lainnya.

10. Jangan menunggu contoh baru bergerak mengikuti, tapi bergeraklah, maka kamu akan menjadi contoh yang diikuti.

11. Jangan menunggu berjaya baru bersyukur,tapi bersyukurlah, maka akan bertambahlah kejayaan.

12. Jangan menunggu sehingga mampu baru melakukan, tapi lakukanlah hari ini!

how i wish i could meet you earlier

i wish i could meet you earlier. long before i've grown up. when its the moment i am free from any insecurity. when we don't know what heart break is, and the only thing we cried of is when we fall and hurt our knees. i wish i meet you back there. so we can play hide and seek together. police and thief. oh we will play it all. and we will have a real great time together. you would wipe my tears when i felled down the bicycle, oh i used to experienced that a lot. and you can climb up the mango tree to fetch me some mangoes. and we will laugh at our faces when it goes too sour. 

we're gonna fight if you take my things. and go friends back if you take me on an ice cream. we're gonna laugh to a strangers walking by. and we're gonna ride the bicycle, while i am riding by your back. we're gonna do it all. we're gonna be scold together for going to far and not coming back home on time. we gonna play husband and wife, and i will definitely force you to play that, you know. :P oh it would be wonderful to experience it all with you. we're so gonna have so much fun.. 

But naah.. we are destined to meet now. and that wishes of mind, will only be a fantasy of mine forever. we are destined to meet now. and those happy childhood moment you and i have experienced, we will share to each other from time to time, would we dear? because i promise, the time we haven't spent before, i would cover it up. with the time we will spend after this. we will cherish every tick of the clock of our time being together. just, together. doing nothing besides talking and laughing. sharing stupid things we've done so long time ago. when we are in two different places. doing two different things. how beautiful, that we can share it, by being at the exact spot now. 

because of the hardness i've been through, Alhamdulillah, i've began to learn, how to whisper the praise to Allah, for every, single smile that curved around my lips, i've felt everyday. thank you Allah, for bringing a beautiful rainbow, after those thunderstorm that came before. :')

for those yang tengah cari semangat mau jadi doktor

terutamanya untuk adik-adik yang bakal ke Mesir bulan ni n bulan depan..

semoga Allah kuatkan semangat kamu semua.

aminn.. may Allah bless! :)

selamat hari raya semua.. maaf zahir batin.. halalkan makan minum saya. nanti jangan lupa puasa 6 syawal okay? may Allah bless! :)

magnetism

“The idea is simple, like its central element, forcefully attractive. Mater gives a twist to a magnet and sets in motion tens of thousands of particles of iron…”
[Ahmed Mater]

subhanAllah, I seriously thought this was the Kaabah for a minute… how ironic, we are just like those flecks of iron, no more powerful or greater than our Creator.

 I thought it was the Kaabah, muslim mind at work..

there are some of my friends that will be going to umrah this Ramadhan..

may they find peaceful there insyaAllah..

may Allah bless! :')

sweet 20 to my other half :D

Today, 20 years ago, Mr. Othman & Ms. Hafizah had done wonders to the world.

Today, 30th of July, 2011.. is the birthday of my other half. Now, he is officially 20 years old. Thanks a lot for still partaking in this journey with me. Just to let you know, there's no a single day passes without i'm thanking Him for giving me chance to meet you in my life. and that's five times a day.. :)

Thanks for all the compliments every time, the valuable advices when I gone overboard, the tell-offs when I am so carried away and all the kept promises. I cherish every second we have had together and looking forward for another of great years more! I want to spend the rest of my life and grow old with you! InsyaAllah.. Thanks for making me a better person over time, I will not stop my journey with you coz I don't want to quit becoming better. There is never a single day passes without I'm thanking HIM for meeting you in my life.

To my friend, my enemy, and foremost my other half:

Happy 20th birthday, I wish you all the happiness in the world and countless blessings ahead.

p/s; there are some typing error in the video i'd gave you.. like advive should be advices and etc. sorry for that.. :P but i hope you'll get the main message from the video. :) happy birthday again. may Allah bless you always.. jangan lupa solat syukur nanti okay? :)

HB ayah.. :)

oppss... happy birthday pakcik :)

..25 July 2011..

 ~thanks for accepting me in your big and happy family..

~thank you for your advices to me..

~and lastly, thank you for being a good father to your child and raises them up till they'd all become better person.. :)

abang hafiz, abang arif, hamizan, aliah, hanisah and aiman must be so proud to have a great father like you.. :)

aliah kata pakcik yang sebelah kanan tu..

hensemlaa.. patut makcik sayang :)

ni time kat beijing kan..

hope to go there with all of you someday.. :)

may Allah bless you always pakcik!

aminn.. :)

p/s; cilok gambar dari fb abang hafiz, abang arif, hanisah n aliah..

sorry and thank you.. :D

congrates to kak aida :)

Assalamualaikum wbt..

congrate to kak aida and her husband..

may Allah bless your marriage till the end..

and may you find solace in each other.. aminn :)

let the pictures talk :D

 in black :D

the solemnization :)

alhamdulillah..

 the reception :)


sorry cilok sikit gambar dari blog kakak.. :)
ini video mereka :D
tengok kat youtube

mabruk senior-seniorku :D

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Alhamdulillah, syukur ke hadrat ALLAH SWT, atas segala nikmat dan kurniaan yang telah dan akan diberikan kepada kita semua.

Dengan ini saya mewakili keluarga saya, Abdul Rahim Bin Suhaini dan keluarga Nurul Izyani Binti Rosley ingin mengumumkan kepada semua sahabat seperjuangan di bumi Mesir, bahawa insyaAllah, saya dan Nurul Izyani Binti Rosley akan mengikat hubungan pernikahan pada 17 September 2011 ini bersamaan 19 Syawal 1432H.

Saya berharap agar sahabat sekalian dapatlah mendoakan kami supaya dimudahkan segala urusan dan moga pernikahan ini berkekalan hingga ke syurga InsyaAllah. Juga diharapkan sepertimana firman Allah SWT dalam surah Ar Rum ayat 21 :

Dan di antara tanda-tanda yang membuktikan kekuasaannya dan rahmatNya, bahawa Ia menciptakan untuk kamu (wahai kaum lelaki), isteri-isteri dari jenis kamu sendiri, supaya kamu bersenang hati dan hidup mesra dengannya, dan dijadikanNya di antara kamu (suami isteri) perasaan kasih sayang dan belas kasihan. Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu mengandungi keterangan-keterangan (yang menimbulkan kesedaran) bagi orang-orang yang berfikir.

*Walimatul Urus akan diadakan selepas selesai pengajian di Mesir ini insyaAllah. :)

 p/s; terkejut sangat lepas baca email ni pagi tadi.. n tumpang happy untuk mantan pengerusi ngan mantan timbalan pengerusi pci last year. alhamdulillah. semoga berkekalan hendaknya dan semoga dipermudahkan segala urusan. insyaAllah.. :) may Allah bless..

stop stoplah..

sudah sudahlah mengumpat belakang orang..
banyak sangatka sudah pahala mau bawa jumpa Tuhan nanti?
banyak sangatka salah kawan tu sampai kena cakap belakang terus?
baik sangatka diri sendiri sampai mau cakap salah orang ja macam diri sendiri teda salah langsung?

yaa.. aku mengaku pernah mengumpat.
rasanya semua orang pernah.. nda taula..
tapi aku minta maaf balik sebab pernah tecakap belakang dia..
n sekarang aku teda sudah cakap pasal orang lain.. 
teda fb sudah untuk tau hal orang lain.. untuk apa?
sedangkan diri sendiri banyak lagi nda betul.. banyak lagi mau ubah..
jadi rasanya teda guna juga mengumpat..
baik terus terang depan kawan tu cakap nda suka dia begini, nda suka dia begitu, tolong jangan buat or etc..
lagi bagus, dapat buat kawan tu berubah.. pastu teda dosa mengumpat.. dia pun tau apa dia buat salah.. daripada cakap belakang dia, sampai bila-bila pun dia nda kan tau salah dia. setuju?


ermm.. aku pun mau minta maaf dengan semua orang yang aku pernah terumpat, terkutuk, apa-apala yang nda baik..
aku just mau berubah sekarang ni.. n aku harap semua kawan-kawan yang baik dapat bantu. :')
aku nda kisah orang mau cakap belakang aku.. terpulang dari dorang. yang penting aku tau apa aku buat sekarang n usaha aku untuk berubah. orang lain nda kan tau n nampak itu, hanya Allah ja yang tau, itu sudah cukup.. :)


may Allah bless.. :)