ermm.. pernah terfikir, hantaran tinggi bermakna akan bahagia perkahwinan?
perkahwinan grand menjamin kebahagiaan?
i admit, i have always wanted a dream wedding, with beautiful clothes, out of this world dais, flawless and perfect make up and posh hantarans.. but that was then, when i am still not sure and still have no image of the wedding yet. still naive. now, i think i am more realistic, as for me, the marriage matters, not the wedding, sounds cliche but yes, its true, gone were the dreams of me wanting a 4 days 4 nights wedding, precious rock ring, and so.. because by the end of the day, all i want is to be hak milik mutlak of the one i love, to put him before myself, and devote all i got just for him. and let Allah punish me if i ever hurt him. or simply saying that i have found THE ONE.
not by enduring the debts after a lavish wedding...
Rasulullah S.A.W stated in the hadith:
"khairunnisa' ahsanhunna wujuuha arkahshunna mahuuraa"
Ertinya : "Sebaik-baik wanita adalah yang elok rupanya dan yang paling rendah kadar maharnya"
Ertinya : "Sebaik-baik wanita adalah yang elok rupanya dan yang paling rendah kadar maharnya"
and in another hadith
"abrakhunna aqlilhunna mahran"
Ertinya : "Seberkat-berkat wanita ialah paling sedikit maharnya”
Ertinya : "Seberkat-berkat wanita ialah paling sedikit maharnya”
Rasulullah SAW also stated in another hadith:
Ertinya : "Di antara dalil keberkatan seorang wanita adalah mudah proses perkahwinannya dan sedikit maharnya."
p/s; just hope the best for the future.. insyaAllah. one quote for you all, "love is a sweet dream and marriage is the alarm clock".. may Allah bless! :)