”Whoever speaks evil about you behind your back, do not become angry for they are in reality giving you their good deeds on a golden plate. And they claim that they’re warning others about you behind your back. If it be the truth, then you have nothing but backbitten and if it not then you’ve slandered. (Al-Hasan al Basree - Rahimahullaah)

sebelum buat kesimpulan, adalah lebih baik dengar dari dua-dua pihak.. no offence. may Allah bless! :)